Getting To Know Them

Being married is a wonderful journey, but also an incredible learning experience. When we were discussing in class what changes when you get married, I thought we covered a lot of great things. Some of those changes are: Routines, Schedules, Sharing Everything, Budget/Finances, and Personal Space. I feel very fortunate that my husband and I have been together for so long (seven years), because it made our transition much easier. I would say that our most difficult transition was the financial aspect. It is not that we do not have the money, it's the fact that I am very organized with our finances and my husband is very lax. If I were to give advice to an engaged couple, it would be to discuss all of the necessary topics, but also create a budget before you get married. Get in the routine of living on a budget, because life much different when two people share an account. I have found that being open-minded to eachother's solutions on how to solve problems not only solves the problem, but brings you and your spouse together.